quote:Originally posted by Joe Bentley: I don't have an "According to Hoyle" fetish but sexually I'm a very aural person. I like sounds. I'd have a hard time being with a very quiet sexual partner.
That makes me very definitely not your type then Joe - I am ridiculously quiet, largely through sheer embarrassment. I'm quite happy doing stuff, and I can type a pretty decent NFBSK too, but I can't actually be vocal about it because I worry it sounds like a bad porn movie or something. The one time I tried phone sex, for example, was a very one-sided conversation.
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choking, spanking, hair pulling, fishnet stockings, high heels, corsets, big bulging veins, blood, injection. That's all I can think of for now.
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Would you mind explaining this? Do you mean that getting an injection in the arm/leg or someplace else?
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Would you mind explaining this? Do you mean that getting an injection in the arm/leg or someplace else?
Watching people inject in their arms, getting injections (at the doctor, I've never done intravenous drugs), getting blood drawn. This somewhat extends to other medical things like blood pressure tests but I don't have a full blown medical fetish. SO isn't too into this stuff and I haven't been able to find much erotica that caters to injections specifically so I haven't thought about this in ages. Funny.
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So far it's feet. Like to hold them, rub them, kiss them. My mom was a foot nurse. Does this mean I have some sort of oedipal complex? Perhaps some light pain and submission. I'm still young yet, give me time.
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quote:Originally posted by Muncle: So far it's feet. Like to hold them, rub them, kiss them. My mom was a foot nurse. Does this mean I have some sort of oedipal complex? Perhaps some light pain and submission. I'm still young yet, give me time.
Just as long as you don't do this to people you don't know
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Bare feet do nothing for me, they are closer to a turnoff. Put those same feet in a pair of stockings or pantyhose and I like!
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In subby mode I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I have a thing aabout velvet and leather (I love the smell of leather and I like the texture of real velvet, none of your lightweight velour substitutes)
In general, I like men to have some body hair. I find long hair (on male heads!) attractive. I adore performing fellatio - major turn on for me.
In daily life - my naked and willing partner is a major turn on (and I'm missing him badly as he's been overseas and sucking my thumb is no substitute).
quote:Originally posted by Muncle: So far it's feet. Like to hold them, rub them, kiss them. My mom was a foot nurse. Does this mean I have some sort of oedipal complex? Perhaps some light pain and submission. I'm still young yet, give me time.
Just as long as you don't do this to people you don't know
Oh of course. My girlfriend would be quite upset if I did. All things aside though, the scene in Sex and the City with the foot-fetish shoe salesman makes me laugh every time
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I have a question pertaining to the definition thing.
What if someone can only orgasm while thinking about a specific person? Like with fantasies during masturbation? No matter what they start thinking about they can't get off until they think about someone. Would they have a fetish for that person? I'm not sure exactly how it works.
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Your Taylor Hicks fascination may have gotten a bit out of hand, Candy.
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That's interesting, Candy. I don't know if it would be a fetish since it involves a human being instead of a non-sexual body part or an inanimate object. I'm not sure what you call that. Have you always had to think about the same person?
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No, it had just been for about the last week or so. And it wasn't even someone I was with for very long, or liked too terribly much. I have gotten back together with the OomA (no, it wasn't him) now though, so I think it should probably stop.
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quote:Originally posted by Richard W: So, er, if this isn't available on-line, then are attractive naked albino women something you've encountered in real life? Or are you just imagining them as being sexy?
*sigh* yes, I'm afraid that an unlimited supply of beautiful women with albinism exist only in my mind...
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I really don't like feet but I like those low cut boots girls wear mostly in the winter. I also love when girls wear hats.
This is the first time I've talked about this with people other than my really good friends but what the hell, here goes: I like really short (less than five feet)or really tall women (over six feet) but not midgets or Sandy Allen types. No offense to midgets or Sandy Allen. Just normal proportioned women who are abnormally short or tall.
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I can only achieve orgasm while in plain sight of the piece of Aggro-Crag I won from that show GUTS on Nickelodeon.
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I like pregnant women, although I'm not a fan of the usual "HOT PREGGO XXX SLUTS" I see on the internet.
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quote:Originally posted by Hubert Cumberdale: This is the first time I've talked about this with people other than my really good friends but what the hell, here goes: I like really short (less than five feet)or really tall women (over six feet) but not midgets or Sandy Allen types. No offense to midgets or Sandy Allen. Just normal proportioned women who are abnormally short or tall.
Hijack: correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that midgets are normally proportioned people who are unusually small (I think the cutoff is 4'9" at adulthood?) while dwarfism means that the person is both extremely small and not proportioned as would be expected.
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quote:Originally posted by Western Fallout: I can only achieve orgasm while in plain sight of the piece of Aggro-Crag I won from that show GUTS on Nickelodeon.
"We use a large vibrating egg" (10 pts for reference)
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Winter clothing. A guy in jeans, a jacket, and a scarf is such a turn on. (Though that does seem to be a hindrance to getting to the actual act, doesn't it?) I also feel more attractive in winter clothing (which is part of the reason I hate living in Florida...only about a week of good cold weather here every year.) I feel so pretty when I can layer a shirt and a sweater (prefereably with a hood) under a jacket, wear my leather boots, and one of the many scarves that I've knitted for myself but have never gotten the chance to wear.)
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I find myself highly attracted to girls with facial piercings, other-than-naturally-coloured hair (The brighter the better) and paler skin.This girl gets me going every time I see this picture. I also like the dark-haired girls with black lipstick and too much eyeliner. Not a fetish, but definitely a reactive agent.
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I get very turned on when a girl is wearing my clothes, especially my favorite sweatshirt, or one of my football jerseys. In fact, I really like the look of women in loose men's sweatshirts
EDIT: Count me in with Joe, the, um, sounds of the bedroom really get me going. Oddly, I'm very quiet when it comes to moans, etc, however I've been told I'm a very good dirty talker.
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quote:Originally posted by Hubert Cumberdale: This is the first time I've talked about this with people other than my really good friends but what the hell, here goes: I like really short (less than five feet)or really tall women (over six feet) but not midgets or Sandy Allen types. No offense to midgets or Sandy Allen. Just normal proportioned women who are abnormally short or tall.
Hijack: correct me if I'm wrong, but I believe that midgets are normally proportioned people who are unusually small (I think the cutoff is 4'9" at adulthood?) while dwarfism means that the person is both extremely small and not proportioned as would be expected.
Argh, sorry but there goes my munchkin hanging up for all to see. Midget is simply a derogatory term for someone with dwarfism, or someone of small stature. There is no difference between a midget and a dwarf, a dwarf is someone with dwarfism, and midget is just another term used to describe someone with dwarfism. The different types of proportions result from all the different types of dwarfism that one can have. Midget was the term widely used during the sideshows days, think: "Step right up folks! And see the tiniest midget in the world!" Due to this association, midget has been considered an untasteful word to use for quite some time as the phrase dehumanizes the person the term is applied to, often someone is no longer seen as a person, if they're labeled a "midget".
Sorry for the hijack, that's just one of those things that really gets under my skin. Continue with the fetish talk.
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Sorry Syllavus. I read the difference in definitions in a book about "special" people such as Tom Thumb and Joseph Merrick as a child, and always assumed they were, if not technical terms, at least somewhat useful and not derogatory.
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Ota, you may already be familiar with them, but if not you should definitely check out the Suicide Girls I think they have everything you mentioned liking!
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Hmmmm, Catholic or Japanese schoolgirl garb. Youthful appearance. Eagerness.
But those are just for mental fantasies during periods of self abuse...
For reality, I like a dirty talker, brunette, darker colored areolae (at least, not regular skin color!!), and bestest is shaved bunny. Eagerness is also an amazing turn-on. I've been involved with too many women that were so passive during sex as to be near comatose... and it ain't no fun.
And I LOVE the scent of a freshly showered/bathed woman. A clean, fresh scent gets me randy... add in "Agree" shampoo (do they make that apple scent any more??) and I am in heaven!!
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I suppose since we're more or less talking about things you find hot...
I find women in sweaty sports gear like the ones worn for soccer, tennis, and such a big turn on than I care to admit. What gets to me however is the smell from the sweat. I don't know why, but it's like the best thing ever to me.
I know it seems rather... tame compared to what others have posted but still I feel embarrassed feeling like that at times.
As for turn-offs, it seems like I'm turned off by what seems to be turn ons for most people--open-toed high heels, tattoos, piercings [especially piercings in areas that look particularly painful for me], leather, heavy makeup, and so on.
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