posted
**I copied and pasted from a friends bulletin, the cut off was already there. My question is...is that another female's hand in the picture the bold is part of the bulletin ***
Finding and stimulating the G-spot has become, for both men and women, the Holy Grail of female pleasuring.
What exactly is the g-spot?
It is the bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the paraurethral gland, which is analogous to the male prostate. The actual area is only about the size of a quarter, but it feels rougher to the touch than the surrounding tissue. Because the G-spot is composed of erectile tissue, it swells up when blood rushes into it during stimulation.
It is located about one to two inches back from the vaginal opening inside the front vaginal wall. The "front" wall is the wall of the vagina on the same side as her belly button. (see below)
The best way to find the g-spot
First of all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a woman is sexually aroused, so don't stint on your foreplay first. (You knew I would get that in!)
To locate the G-spot, face your partner while she is lying on her back and insert your index or long middle finger into her vagina as far as it will easily go. Then crook it upward toward yourself in a "come hither" motion, sliding your fingertip along the top of the vagina until you find an area that is rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall. (Make sure you have your fingernails clipped short and buffed before you do this -- sharp fingernails will definitely spoil the effort.) This rough or slightly ridged area is the "G-spot," and touching it will often cause a woman to react with surprise or pleasure.
If you don't get a reaction, here's what you do...
If you don't get a reaction, don't be too shy to ask her if she feels especially sensitive when you touch what you think is the spot. You may need to use a fair amount of pressure to find the G-spot because it is located within, not on the outside of, the vaginal wall.
Sometimes it helps to use your other hand on the outside of the mons pubis (the hairy area above the pubic bone) to lightly massage the skin in the area where your crooked finger is touching, to intensify the effect. And since not all women are G-spot sensitive, don't get discouraged if you can't get a special reaction.
While some women are capable of multiple orgasms with repetitive stimulation of the G-spot, others don't get much of a feeling and some even feel discomfort from G-spot stimulation. But some will have an ejaculation, better known as squirting.
But no worries -- every woman will appreciate the attention and the effort! And while searching, you might discover other areas in her vagina that she responds to even more enthusiastically.
Tapping into love
The best way to manually stimulate the G-spot is with a firm "tapping" motion with your crooked finger. Some guys find it easier to stimulate the G-spot with various toys. Any dildo can be used for this, but the ones that are best suited for G-spot stimulation are hard and curved. Many are made specifically for G-spot stimulation, as their length, width and curve are specifically designed to take the "guesswork" out of G-spot stimulation.
Even women who do not enjoy manual stimulation of the G-spot may enjoy penile stimulation of the spot during intercourse. So, if your penis has a natural upward bend, you've got it made! Other men have to find positions that maximize penile contact with the front wall of the vagina. The "woman on top" positions and posterior (doggy style) positions are best for achieving that contact.
The only way to get G-spot stimulation in the missionary position is to prop her hips up with pillows (or a special wedge known as "The Liberator"). Women can also intensify their ability to have G-spot orgasms by learning to contract their pelvic muscles, known as kegel exercises.
Sex gets better with age
There is some evidence that the intensity of a woman's G-spot orgasm is mediated by the hormone estrogen. Most young women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to be more powerful, because, due to their relatively high estrogen levels, their vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.
As the estrogen level begins to decline in women during their 30s, the vaginal lining becomes thinner and the G-spot becomes more accessible. That's why most women feel that they begin to peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.
Remember I will no longer post "Dating Tips on the bullentis after this week you will have to join m
-------------------- "Fate is like a strange, unpopular resturant, filled with odd waiters who bring you things you never ask for and don't always like."-Lemony Snicket Posts: 1119 | From: Bronx, NY | Registered: Dec 2005
| IP: Logged |
posted
My only question is why it says "Urethral opening (exit point for ejaculate)"? If some women DO "squirt" (as they put it) during orgasm...what organ is producing fluid that can come out through the urethra besides her kidneys? I wasn't aware that women were hooked up that way.
-------------------- "For me, religion is like a rhinoceros: I don't have one, and I'd really prefer not to be trampled by yours. But it is impressive, and even beautiful, and, to be honest, the world would be slightly worse off if there weren't any." -Silas Sparkhammer Posts: 3239 | From: Ontario, Canada | Registered: Sep 2003
| IP: Logged |
posted
This "G-spot" sounds like an urban legend to me, so I'm just going to have to do some research on it. If I don't post in a week, assume it's true.
-------------------- "Tell me what you eat, and I will tell you what you are." - Anthelme Brillat-Savarin "That lonely recluse who lives down the road is crying out. So is that pregnant teenager. And the prostitute. And the drunkard." Join the Free State Project - I did! Posts: 1516 | From: *sigh* Elmira, NY | Registered: Sep 2001
| IP: Logged |
posted
I don't know what you consider old, Troberg, but my experience has been quite different.
Enjoy your research TOF.
-------------------- Contact me for discounts Charter member WNDMDC "I am putting you on hold now.Listen to the elevator music and LIKE it."~My 'J' Posts: 1816 | From: NE, Oregon | Registered: Dec 2005
| IP: Logged |
I heard that sex as you grow old is like playing pool with a rope...
I heard that anyone who refers to "playing" pool doesn't know how to shoot pool very well.
Get back to me in about thirty years when you are the age of my husband, and we'll compare notes. Oops, never mind! I'll be dead by then, so I guess we need to compare notes, now. Never shot a game of pool with a rope in my life! How about you?
-------------------- "This air we're breathing. Oxygen, isn't it?"~I’mNotDedalus, impersonating Vincent D’Onofrio.|"Sometimes trying to communicate can be like walking through a minefield."~wanderwoman "Give people a break. It's not easy doing a life."~Joshua Halberstam Posts: 4020 | From: Oklahoma | Registered: Nov 2005
| IP: Logged |
quote:Originally posted by MapleLeaf: My only question is why it says "Urethral opening (exit point for ejaculate)"? If some women DO "squirt" (as they put it) during orgasm...what organ is producing fluid that can come out through the urethra besides her kidneys? I wasn't aware that women were hooked up that way.
As far as I know, Maple Leaf, that's not where it comes from. It's my understanding that it comes from the vagina.
-------------------- 'I'm the decider... I decide what's best.' Posts: 403 | From: Branson, Missouri | Registered: Nov 2004
| IP: Logged |
quote:Originally posted by MapleLeaf: My only question is why it says "Urethral opening (exit point for ejaculate)"? If some women DO "squirt" (as they put it) during orgasm...what organ is producing fluid that can come out through the urethra besides her kidneys? I wasn't aware that women were hooked up that way.
As far as I know, Maple Leaf, that's not where it comes from. It's my understanding that it comes from the vagina.
Actually...
that is where it comes from...
TMI Warning system activated... TMI Warning TMI Warning TMI Warning TMI Warning TMI Warning TMI Warning TMI Warning TMI Warning TMI Warning You have been Warned!
My Lovely fiance has that gift... And yes, it is wonderful and it does come from there. Apparently (I did research when I discovered this talent of hers ) there's a gland similar in many ways to male semen producing glands, which produces the ejaculate... and it's squirted out through the urethra.
However, with my fiance I learned not to believe everything you read like this, helpful tips i admit but nothing is better than just feeling around in there and finding her "fun spots"... Also as these "help guides" always say, focus on the front wall, not always right for every woman... YMMV remember that. most of all, don't go into it with all these steps you have to do, that just makes it clinical... just have fun! After all isn't that what it's all about?
Posts: 153 | From: Edmonton, Alberta, Canada | Registered: Dec 2004
| IP: Logged |
UBBFriend: Email this page to someone!
Printer-friendly view of this topic
![[lol]](graemlins/lol.gif)
the bold is part of the bulletin ***
![[Razz]](tongue.gif)
![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)
and it does come from there. Apparently (I did research when I discovered this talent of hers ![[Wink]](wink.gif)
) there's a gland similar in many ways to male semen producing glands, which produces the ejaculate... and it's squirted out through the urethra. 
