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fsyoung
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My half-Mexican girlfriend heard from some of her female African American friends that having sex makes your but get bigger. For example that's why so-and-so's but is so big, because she has alot of sex. I hadn't ever heard that before. Is it true? Can being sexually active make Hispanic and Black girls' hips spread or buts grow?
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anue
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Hips are bones. Bones don't usually change shape.

Also, getting pregnant makes one's stomach bigger, but I think that's something different..

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I can see the reasoning that sex would make your hips spread (through lying down more) but it would have to be for a very long time!
Also when you talk about big backsides it generally means ones that "stick out" rather than spread and I can't see how that could happen from sex.
It just sounds like a morality warning i.e. "if you act like a slut your bum will get big"

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quote:
Originally posted by fsyoung:
Can being sexually active make Hispanic and Black girls' hips spread or buts grow?

Why would it effect hispanics and blacks, but not others? I'm white, but I still weighed 101 with no hips to speak of, after being sexually active for many years and having a child.

Going online, now that makes your butt bigger. [Smile]

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quote:
Originally posted by tagurit:
Going online, now that makes your butt bigger. [Smile]

tag

...so *that* explains it!

[Wink] Alexina

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When I was about 13, there was a girl who (for lack of a better phrase) got around, and she just happened to be kind of bow-legged. Everyone used to say that it was because she had sex so much, but I guess we never stopped to think that if that were true, the world's adult population would be majorly bow-legged.

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That reminds me of a line in Black Adder about a "woman of lose reputation" needing to be "buried in a Y shaped coffin"

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I remember in my high school psychology class when we were studying developmental psychology, I believe, and we had a section about pregnancy, and I believe during that, I was told that during childbirth your hips move to allow the child to pass more easily. I have no first hand expierence though, so.... Besides, my butt is big enough as it is. [Smile]

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I think that would definitely be a myth. Hip wideness depends mostly on genetics.

I also would guess that having wide hips doesn't necessarily make it easier for a woman to have children... though I rather hope so, as I have fairly wide hips. [Smile]

I have heard that when a woman gives birth, a notch is left on a pelvic bone or the hips. I learned this from a homicide investigation (Exhibit A on TLC)... apparently there is one notch for each child. Makes sense... the stress and all.

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Red Squirrel
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I've heard the only way to tell a skeleton's sex is by hip width, height and wear of the bones (larger muscles in men erode the bone more). Although this wouldn't have anything to do with sex widening them just sexual maturity.

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fsyoung
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Can more people address the idea that the bottom might get bigger? Alot of people have talked about the hips and I feel like I may have misspoke a little. I think the main thing I was hearing is that a girls' hind gets larger, which I guess can be good or bad, depending on who you ask. I know this is just running around in circles, but there are people here in south who truly believe this to be true. Does sex make for bigger booties?
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I heard the rumor in high school that girls walked different after losing their virginity and that their thighs didn't touch when they sat down anymore. Who makes this crap up?

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I would say that sex does not make bottoms bigger. My ass would be huge by now. [Wink]

I mean, think about the physical act of sex. It takes a lot of work. (If you're doing it right). So you'd probably be more likely to lose inches, then gain them.

Sounds like a UL to me.

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The only reason I can think of that a bottom would become bigger through sex is by doing it in the missionary position- all the..um..vigorous pushing-into-the-mattress could "spread" the bttom at the cost of how much it sticks out at the back but this doesn't seem very viable.

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My father used to always tell me when I was a kid, that if a teenage girl had big breasts, it meant that they were being played with. The bigger the breasts, the more the playing. i figured out, at an early age that big breasts just naturally got played with more. I wouldn't waste my time trying to make small breasts bigger. 2 much work, if you ask me. [Big Grin]
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quote:
Originally posted by fsyoung:
Can more people address the idea that the bottom might get bigger? Alot of people have talked about the hips and I feel like I may have misspoke a little. I think the main thing I was hearing is that a girls' hind gets larger, which I guess can be good or bad, depending on who you ask. I know this is just running around in circles, but there are people here in south who truly believe this to be true. Does sex make for bigger booties?

No, no. How much more can we address it? The answer is no. How in the world can having sex make your butt bigger? I just told you, but let me be more clear. I weighed 101 for years, before becoming sexually active, and for years after. I weighed 101 for over 20 years! I dated my first lover for 2 years and we screwed like rabbits. My hips were so small that my second husband (you understand, this was many years and two husbands later) used to say I looked like a young boy from the back (hmmmm....which now has me wondering about him and.... oh, never mine). So, it's not true. Ok?

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anue
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quote:
Originally posted by tagurit:
... My hips were so small that my second husband (you understand, this was many years and two husbands later) used to say I looked like a young boy from the back (hmmmm....which now has me wondering about him and.... oh, never mine)...

Tag, that wasn't Michael Jackson by any chance was it? [Big Grin]

Sorry. [fish] I couldn't resist.

Please resume your regular discussion.

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Actually, that's quite an urban legend all in its own here in Puerto Rico. About 90% of the people here believe that you can tell women who have had sex from virgins by seeing the width of their hips. I never believed it though, but seeing how most people believed it, made it almost look credible. OH WELL!

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quote:
Originally posted by Divino:
I never believed it though, but seeing how most people believed it, made it almost look credible. OH WELL!

Which is exactly what makes an urban ledgend live so long, I believe. You just hear it so much, from so many people, that it must be true.

Anyone else notice that the OT poster hasn't done anything else? Is it just me, or have there been a few of those lately?

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hey - let's talk about people like they're not really there - and thanks for the lesson on what makes an urban legend last so long - is it just me or have we had a few of those lately
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I could get severely perverted here, but I won't... and don't you dare think of it!
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I don't think sex makes for wide hips, but pregnancy can. I remember reading in one of my baby books (I think it was "What to Expect When Your Expecting") that hormones cause your joints to soften and bones to spread apart. Most commonly, your hips and feet will be wider after pregnancy. I did gain about half a shoe size after my first baby. I tried to do a search to back this up and this was the closest I could find, from Active Birth Centre
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In pregnancy, hormonal softening increases laxity of the tissues and there is a widening of the pubic joint in the front of the pelvis (symphysis pubis), designed to increase the pelvic diameters for birth. With SPD, increased laxity causes mild to severe pain which is felt in the front pubic area and is worse when walking, spreading the legs, lifting one leg, or moving in bed. There may also be associated pain in the lower back, sacroiliac joints, groin, or inner thighs. Postnatally, joint laxity will decrease again and, with the right care, further discomfort can be avoided. Pilates is an excellent form of post natal exercise to strengthen muscle tone and give more support to the pelvis postnatally.
I don't remember how far along in pregnancy this happens...maybe the legend comes from "loose" girls who've had abortions or had babies in secret or something.

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Sex does spread clap.
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When I was 15, I had an friend from Iran who claimed her hips had gotten wider because she'd had sex. ("Sex opens you up inside and makes everything wider.") She also said she could tell who was a virgin and who wasn't by the way they walked. I always dismissed it as myth, both before and after losing my virginity, and until now I never heard anyone else make the same claims as my friend, not even my boyfriend, who's Puerto Rican [Smile]
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I remember an older neighborhood boy telling me that he could tell if a girl was not a virgin by looking at her crotch when she stood still. If he could see "daylight," she wasn't a virgin. Total bull-NFBSK.
This was the same guy who told me that "woman" meant a young girl and "women" meant an old grandma! I think I was in 2nd or 3rd grade. I believed him. What a schmuck.

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quote:
Originally posted by lexi_wades:
That reminds me of a line in Black Adder about a "woman of lose reputation" needing to be "buried in a Y shaped coffin"

When at school we used to refer to certain girls as having 'Tescos legs' - as in they were always open... Terrible. [Wink]

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I saw a really raunchy comedienne on HBO or something once...not 'regular' tv for sure.

She said she has a friend that had sex so much that her IUD was picking up cable.

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One time hubby and I were looking at porn on the Net and we came across icky photos. I don't know if they were just unflatering or what, but the girl was..umm hanging out. I don't know how to describe it. I thikn she was hispanic, so maybe it was just a genitic thing. I don't know the site so I can't point to it so the for the photo to be analyzed. I doubt anyone would want to see it anyway.

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One time hubby and I were looking at porn on the Net and we came across icky photos. I don't know if they were just unflatering or what, but the girl was..umm hanging out. I don't know how to describe it.

Do you mean that her labia minora (inner vaginal lips) were hanging out of her vulva?

That may have been "icky" to you and your husband, but I can guarantee you that there's somebody who thinks that's the most gorgeous, hottest thing around.

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I thikn she was hispanic, so maybe it was just a genitic thing.
There are no genetic predispositions that affect the size and elasticity of the labia minora. The size, shape, and elasticity of the labia minora vary tremendously from individual to individual; it's not connected to ethnic, linguistic, or national background in any way.

If the person photographed was doing labia fetish-porn, she may even have had her labia minora stretched (with piercings, weights, etc.) to accentuate their appearance.

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Oddly enough, no one has stated the obvious response to the thread title: "Having sex spreads hips?"

The answer, of course, is: It depends on your position.

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Oddly enough, no one has stated the obvious response to the thread title: "Having sex spreads hips?"

The answer, of course, is: It depends on your position.

Nope. It spreads legs, not hips.
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