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David
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Is female ejaculation real or an UL? I've heard women say the fluid is just urine caused by a woman losing bladder control during orgasm. Others say it's real.
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Originally posted by David:
Is female ejaculation real or an UL? I've heard women say the fluid is just urine caused by a woman losing bladder control during orgasm. Others say it's real.

According to Cecil, the "female ejaculate is urine" myth is what prevents a number of women from really letting go and enjoying the experience, which is known as a "Grafenberg spot" orgasm.
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Originally posted by David:
Is female ejaculation real or an UL? I've heard women say the fluid is just urine caused by a woman losing bladder control during orgasm. Others say it's real.

I read somewhere (it was possibly from something like a cosmo or company magazine) that scientists researching this phenomenon experimented with a dye which stained the subject's urine blue, but doesn't affect the vaginal secretions at all.

Apparently, when the "ejaculate" was checked, it hadn't been affected by the staining, and was deemed that it was obviously not urine.

I am also given to understand that it is a phenomenon not found in all women. Oh, well, you win some, you lose some ......

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This is from my Psychology of Gender textbook (Half the Human Experience by Janet Shibley Hyde):

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Traditionally, it was thought that men ejaculate and women don't. However, sex researchers John Perry and Beverly Whipple (1981) reported they discovered fluid spurting out of the urethra of some women during orgasm. According to one study, the fluid is chemically similar to the seminal fluid of men, but contains no sperm.
The relevant journal citation for more info: Perry, J.D., & Whipple, B. (1981). Pelvic muscle strength of female ejacuators: Evidence in support of a new theory of orgasm. Journal of Sex Research, 17, 22-39.

The book goes on to say that 10-20% of women experience this, though many were embarrassed by it because they thought they were peeing.

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They can't even agree on the G-spot and cellulite yet, so the experts have a long way to go here.

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They can't even agree on the G-spot and cellulite yet, so the experts have a long way to go here.

Agree on what about the G-spot? That it exists, or what it does?

For myself, I have absolutely no doubt that I have a G-spot. There is a spot that feels exactly as the G-spot is described in the described location. It doesn't do anything remotely orgasm-related for me, but it's there.

I think the whole "It doesn't exist" thing stems from the misconception that it's a sure-fire way to have powerful orgasms. But it's one of those things that is experienced differently by every woman.

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For myself, I have absolutely no doubt that I have a G-spot. There is a spot that feels exactly as the G-spot is described in the described location. It doesn't do anything remotely orgasm-related for me, but it's there.

I agree. I know I have one, but I must say that it doesn't always produce the mind blowing, earth shattering orgasim that the experts say it's supposed to. It's just one of those things that has to be touched in just the right way to make it work. [Wink]

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it doesn't always produce the mind blowing, earth shattering orgasim that the experts say it's supposed to [Wink]

It just makes me feel like I have to pee [Frown]

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it doesn't always produce the mind blowing, earth shattering orgasim that the experts say it's supposed to [Wink]

It just makes me feel like I have to pee [Frown]
[Laughing out loud] sorry i had to laugh, i can't tell you how many times i had to call a stop to the whole process for that very same reason!

far "um, honey...can you hold that thought?" rah

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FYI
I'd heard all this about female ejaculation in a book called something like "The G spot and other sexual discoveries. I never experienced it, but a few years ago my husband had prostate surgery. His surgeon said some men continued to ejaculate by he didn't know what. And, guess what, it's true. The liquid is thin, copious, and more like tears than urine. Probably the same physical phenomenon at work.
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Female ejaculation is not a myth, as I've experienced it many times, myself. I'd like to add, however, that I think the G-spot is overrated. And, it's definitely not a magic button.

tag press here for orgasm... urit

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"Agree on what about the G-spot? That it exists, or what it does?"

Not all the experts agree whether it exists.

(Don't blame me for their opinion, I'm more interested in the hypothetical MALE g-spot)

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quote:
Originally posted by David:
Is female ejaculation real or an UL? I've heard women say the fluid is just urine caused by a woman losing bladder control during orgasm. Others say it's real.

It amazes me that scientists can't agree on this, while pornographers seem to have known about it for years. There is even a fetish tape where women ejaculate copious amounts of milky-white liquid onto theirs partners' faces. No mistaking it for pee, and no way to fake it. It's very real.

Um, or so says my friend, anyway. I don't go for that sort of thing.

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Originally posted by Animal or god?:
(Don't blame me for their opinion, I'm more interested in the hypothetical MALE g-spot)

In all seriousness: many people claim that the frenulum is the male g-spot. This is more-or-less untestable in North American on a large scale, and the relative difficulty of fully inhibiting the male sexual response (regardless of the precise stimulus) makes it difficult to test in general.
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I thought the male g-spot was supposed to be the prostate.

I have had one close encounter with female ejaculation fooling around with an ex. It was pretty suprising.

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From what I've observed (myself, not w/ other groups) it seems to exist. It isn't the best feeling I've ever had, but it was rather,mmm... definite. [Wink] [Big Grin]
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Uncle Cecil has addressed the topic again.

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Apparently female "ejaculate" is fluid from the Skene's glands or pariurethral glands and the difference between (this is technical talk, believe me) "squirters" and "non-squirters" is the number of those glands a woman has.

My G spot really makes me want to pee - I have to beg partner to stop stimulating it. The other night he wouldn't be put off, I'm praying I don't lose control of my bladder and finally said "It doesn't work like tha-a-a-aaaaagh!!!" which sort of proved me wrong mid-sentence! I felt something seep, but it wasn't pee.

Maybe it should be "seepers" rather than "squirters"?

There's also an "A spot" closer to the cervix and that one really does work for me (but needs long fingers) [Big Grin]

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I've read that some women feel like they really have to pee when achieving a g-spot orgasm and that they will ejaculate if they keep going.

can women actually pee while orgasming anyway?

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OMG I always though something was wrong with me. The easiest way for me to orgaum is the G spot. Many time I feel as if I will pee when I am orgauming. I just thought I was wierd./
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quote:
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Many time I feel as if I will pee when I am orgauming.

Then you need to put down the paper swan, and go to the restroom.

ham "know when to fold 'em, etc..." bubba

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Originally posted by sherrie:
Many time I feel as if I will pee when I am orgauming.

Then you need to put down the paper swan, and go to the restroom.

ham "know when to fold 'em, etc..." bubba

Okay, major YOMANK here, hambubba, and I really needed that...

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I had no idea how badly I butchered that till I went back and looked. I mean I know I have bad spelling but man that was bad. [Thwack]
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Nobody has found my G spot yet - and from reading this thread I am pretty glad they haven't [Razz] don't have a problem with feeling like peeing during the big 'O', but I have a terrible job trying to go afterwards!
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All I can say for some of you is too bad you don't get that feeling when your G-spot is stimulated. The only thing to say really is OMG [Eek!]

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The only way mine can be hit is if I am on top other wise it doesn't work I have heard that you can stimulate it missionary but with pilllows under your bum
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So the clitoris, I'm assuming, is preferential stimulation to the g-spot? Is it possible for a female to ejaculate without g-spot stimulation? Is female ejaculation pleasurable? (Sorry, I'm an inquisitive young man [Smile] )
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So the clitoris, I'm assuming, is preferential stimulation to the g-spot? Is it possible for a female to ejaculate without g-spot stimulation? Is female ejaculation pleasurable? (Sorry, I'm an inquisitive young man [Smile] )

hey! any guy that can find them without needing a map..........!!! (laughs)

Stimulation of either can be pleasurable providing it's done right. The thing is, not all women can experience a climax without being stimulated clitorally.(contrary to what a lot of the porn films may show)

I have experienced FE without G-spot stimulation.

Of course FE is pleasurable. It's like saying "Are orgasms nice?" FE isn't necessary for pleasure. I think it's more a by-product of the climax.

I hope you will stay as curious and inquisitive about making sure your partner recieves pleasure!

Remember what Woody Allen said- "Sex? it's the most fun you can have without laughing!!"

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btw- sorry if that post was more info than you needed/wanted. This is NFBSK, after all, so I considered it permissible to speak frankly.
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Hey-- no information is too much. I plan on having a successful relationship one day, so I'm trying to become as informed as possible on matters of this subject.
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quote:
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Hey-- no information is too much. I plan on having a successful relationship one day, so I'm trying to become as informed as possible on matters of this subject.

That's a good start. Education is good, experience is better. Experience while paying attention to what works or doesn't work for your partner is best.

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quote:
Originally posted by Llewtrah:
Apparently female "ejaculate" is fluid from the Skene's glands or pariurethral glands and the difference between (this is technical talk, believe me) "squirters" and "non-squirters" is the number of those glands a woman has.

My G spot really makes me want to pee - I have to beg partner to stop stimulating it. The other night he wouldn't be put off, I'm praying I don't lose control of my bladder and finally said "It doesn't work like tha-a-a-aaaaagh!!!" which sort of proved me wrong mid-sentence! I felt something seep, but it wasn't pee.

Maybe it should be "seepers" rather than "squirters"?

There's also an "A spot" closer to the cervix and that one really does work for me (but needs long fingers) [Big Grin]

Llewtrah

With the times i've been, um , witness to this the term "squirt" is definitely more appropriate than "seep" [Smile]

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